November 26, 2006
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predators and banquets
What Would Auntie Mame Do? LIVE LIVE LIVE!
I had to fire a client. He’s a perp, a sexual predator, and I had to get rid of him. I don’t know if he’s gone yet. I will know by Monday or Tuesday. If he’s not 100% gone by then I will involve the police. I feel disgusted and violated and I just want him to go away.
This happened over the course of a few weeks and I just finally got up the guts to tell someone. The shame was intense and debilitating but fairly short-lived once I got it out in the open. I was manipulated, power-played, and molested. And it’s not my fault.
I’m really thankful for my friend, the one who saw there was something wrong and drew this out of me. She didn’t scorn me, or make fun of me, or blame me. She was wonderful.
I’m not going to live in fear, or shame. If I see him Monday or Tuesday I’m not going to be polite. I’m going to be loud and sharp: GET OUT… I’M CALLING 911!
Comments (27)
wow, so sorry kiddo : / but yeah, fuck fear…no shame in surviving…do what you have to do, with impunity
man, that’s fucked up! but I’m really happy to hear you’re handling it, and well, but the sound of it.
holy shit…what happened?
oh and by the by, I don’t know the website, but there is a national database (federal) that tells you where all the convicted sex offenders live. I looked up the snatch one time, while living there, FULL OF THEM. It was amazing. I compared it to other places in the state and it was insanely disproportioned (as in more convicted sex offenders per capita in the snatch than other places I searched, by far).
Um. I’m sure having young daughters, that little piece of information is not helping your piece of mind. …sorry. I guess I’m just saying I’m not completely surprised. Upset that it happend, whatever the fuck did happen, yes. I hope you’re okay.
Good For You!!!!
oh man, i will fucking hurt him. people like that need to be sent to antarctica where they can be molested by a polar bear, and then promptly eaten!
Google Megan’s Law Database. It’s not just about the Child Sex Offenders, it lists all of them-I found a rapist 8 houses down from me.
Oh sweets, I’m so sorry this happened to you! I’m glad your friend had open eyes and saw something was wrong, too many people run around blind.
Let me know if there’s anything I can do.
((((((((((HUGS!))))))))))
-M
http://www.meganslaw.org then click on “state by state”
-M
oh boy, that’s awful.
terrible.
SHOUT IT OUT!
Ah, honey. It’s not your fault, it’s not your fault, it’s not your fault.
Be safe.
good for you!!! you did the right thing- doesn’t it feel great to be empowered?!?!
Wear stilettoes. If he’s still there crush his toes (and balls).
uh… the only person I’d hurt in stilettos would be ME.
but it’s taken care of. whew. huge relief.
What Savon said. I’m a guy, I’d run in fear from those shoes. And also, on behalf of the rest of us guys, I’m sorry.
Wow! Sounds severe.
Yuck. What a seriously crap thing to have to go through. Glad it’s over, cause man…..that’s bad bad bad.
~ Sherri
OK, now I don’t know whether to be more freaked out or ill. I just went to the Megan’s Law website, and did a quick search on the area I grew up in…..and just found one of my high school friends listed as a child sex offender.
Sick. Very sick.
You are strong enough to do the right thing.
And you are.
That is terrible, and I am so sorry.
That’s horrible! But good on you for doing something.
I swear, sometimes I don’t want to let my daughter leave the damned house. Sick bastards everywhere.
be careful.. dont hesitate to call 911
amen to that bebe grrl. You do what you need to to take care of YOU.
RYC: Awesome, that’s great to hear. Thanks!
Is everything ok?
just checkin in, baybee.
{{hugs}} Hope that he went away for good.
That’s right. Dammit.