December 15, 2003
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Mars Conjunction Saturn
exact at 15:15
that is exactly when they cut up my credit card.
off of the back of the last blog:
…the final straw is going to purchase the agreed apon xmas presents for the children only to have the clerk take my card away. he has taken me off of the credit cards.
I specifically confirmed that buying those things was a joint decision. that was just mean on his part. having my card declined, let alone taken, is one of my worst fears. I know it sounds stupid, but it is.
I don’t even know if I’m going to say anything to him. what am I supposed to say? you’re an asshole? like that’s news.
Comments (26)
Oh for *fuck’s sake*. Jesus god. What a PIKER. What a FEEB. What a…I’m speechless.
Look, this isn’t very Zen or Enlightened of me, but just know, just know in your warm and enormous and full of life heart that if I lived near him, I’d give him an anonymous ass-kicking that A) He’d never forget or live down, and B) He’d never trace back to you.
And also remember that I love you and that I think you are pretty dang rad.
He is going out of his way to be a fuckwad. That is just wrong. He should keep you on at least one card til you get on your feet. The bastard.
you got smarticus so pissed off that she’s making up words now.
i’m sorry, baybee. i know it doesn’t help. but i am. going out of his way to heap sadness and embarrassment on top of all the other stuff you’re feeling is just lower than worms, and it’ll come back around to haunt him. in the meantime, know that you’ve got love and support here, and if you need it, we’ll all come slash the bastard’s tires.
I hope something really painful and emasculating happens to him.
humiliation would be good, too. yeah, lots of that.
fuck that guy.
omgosh what an asshole..
you have UNBELIEVABLE RESTRAINT
don’t say anything. That’s my advice fwiw. Just go. Cut your losses, Lara. You have a whole new life on deck.
He’s really not worth another fight. He will never give you satisfaction, so satisfy yourself.
yeah, I think you’re right.
Yeah, I think VM’s right… you are soooo much better than that asshole
But gee, he’s taking it out on the kids? It doesn’t get much lower than that 
its so sad when things go this way. just hold your head up high and focus on the day when this will be a distant memory..
the sooner hes away the better.
Christ, what a sorry little person he must be.
Don’t say a word to him about the fucking credit card. Don’t give him the satisfcation.
Shit.
Hmm…you know what I think of you. You know how much I believe in you.
And you know that I sooo will do the tire slashing bit for ya…but I don’t do tires. Also, I’d give the anonymous ass-kicking but I don’t do anonymous.
It wouldn’t be his tires and he’d know exactly why for the rest of his days…
:: jumping up and down, stamping my feet in utter fucking rag :: YOU DO NOT FUCKING DESERVE THIS LARA. Believe me, if I EVER see him again, he’ll get Smarticus’ asskicking by proxy. Then I’ma calling the rest of the mamas down on him.
Remember the gimp scene in Pulp Fiction…..?
Turn the other credit card. Wait, was that cheek or credit card. I can’t remember. I’m old, but I love you.
Yeah, put me on the list of those agreeing with VM, including you. What good is another confrontation? But holy fuck, man, what’s with this guy?
a dick with ears. He’s not worth your precious energy, in my opinion.
mutherfucker.
Can he do that ? Aren’t your funds mutual ? Does he have control over your money ? I’m sure there’s a way you can protect yourself, dude. There must be a way to fight back – he takes the house, the money, the cards..? How is that possible ?
I mean, what the hell is he thinking ? Even if he wants to hurt you because he’s a bastard, can’t he see what this kind of attitude is doing to the kids ?
Damnit, L. I think you need to hire a sly lawyer and kick your husband where it hurts.
When a jackass uses kids as the left of center way to “punish” the one he’s angry at he deserves to rot in hell. He can share a bench with my father.
Bastards…
-M
If he’s started this soon being this petty, its going to be a long hard fight, it ain’t going to be easy and you aren’t going to be able to walk away and just let him get on with it. If you don’t do as incrediblequirk suggests you are going to get screwed. Some people can manage to separate their lives in a civilized manner, it doesn’t look like he is one of them.
I’m sorry. I have my own shit too.
I love my lawyer.
so you can’t buy your kids anything?
awwww mama, that sucks so bad.
i wish we all lived close enough, so we could all hurt him.
your presents went out monday, they should get there before the move.
loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooove.
Ugh!
Very sad to hear that he’s started being this petty right off the bat but it does give more insight as to how he must have behaved while still in the relationship. It’s not a wonder that you both grew distant, he was a prick the entire time, and now he’s got an excuse to act as bad as he’s wanted to. Fucking hell you need to stand up and not let him get away with a single ‘nother bit of bullshit or he’s gonna rake you over the coals during divorce. See, it doesn’t even seem to me that the issues with the kids are cause he’s being a good father, it’s more so he can rub your nose in the seperation and try and cause as much pain for you as possible. Fuck that, make him work for the smallest bit of pittance from here on out, you don’t HAVE to play to his pathetic games, and he HAS to pay for supporting those kids. Make sure he’s just as fucking miserable, then perhaps he’ll stop this shit. *grrrrrr*
Fuck i wanna get violent, and I don’t even know the bastard.
I’m coming by to wish you a Merry Christmas…I’ll keep you in my thoughts girlie