April 28, 2004
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It didn’t go well.
It didn’t go badly either.
It’s all in the perspective.
I cried. His attorney is an ass.
Someday this will all be over.
Right now I have to work… gotta pay the bills.
I took the high road.
…and he took the low road
and I’ll get to Scotland a’fore ye
where me and my true love shall never meet again
on the bonny, bonny shores of Loch Lomand.
Comments (31)
Also sorry to hear that it was that way.
‘s and more strength to you.
to sink as low as he has, karma’s gotta have a bitchfest on him. and I will laugh with you when it happens.
Aa long as you continue taking the high road, in the end you will be the one who feels good about themselves.
you can do eet!
you’re going to get through this, because you are loved and you are lovely. you are.
he’s going to keep doing the same horrid bullshit again and again because he is insane.
insane people need pity, not tears. Love you.
thankfully, sealkitty has already had all the good thoughts. listen to her. smooch.
Glad this stage is over. What a jerk he is!
Of course his attorney is an asshole…no nice guy would represent him in his ridiculous attempt to bend you over.
All lawyers are …. it just depends which side they are on.
Now you know why lawyers are always dumped on by stand-ups. But yeah, anyway, echoes, echoes.
to me, at least, it looks like you’re going about things in the right way… step by step.
all the best to you!
hang in there – every day things will get easier… as for tears, i think it’s ok to cry when you have to – makes things heal quicker.
yay! the quicker you get this shit over the better.
Holy Hannah sister!!! You know, as time rolls by I begin to wonder about that Cosmic Karma Credit Plan and the payout…
In looking to my own father and the marriage/sham he and my mother had, which in turn destroyed any semblance of family left…and he’s still doing fine, I’ve gotta say that in the short term at least, the bad ones seem to prosper just fine. That said though, it also occurs to me that that sad, sorry little man is not loved, nor shall anyone mourn him when he dies. So too might it be with yours…but you Lara girl, YOU. ARE. LOVED.
M’kay? Yeah. By the by, lemme know if there’s anything at all I can do for you. No really…I mean it.
Timothy
Karma never tells us when it’ll kick in, it just does.
My father dismissed my brother and I when he got a “New and improved family”, and he took my daughter with him…
Put this way, I wouldn’t want to be standing anywhere near him during a lightening storm. I wouldn’t want to be standing near you ex either.
I agree with Tim, it appears like they’re doing really well at first, but I’ve seen Karma in action in another instance…they might look good on the outside, but they’re empty on the inside. Kinda like the dementors kissed them…
-M
I’m certain you’re right. you know, my stbfex is rather LIKE a dementor: sucks the joy right out of everything, always has.
I believe in Karma. It’ll get him.
Yes Karma will get him! Too bad it wasn’t INSTANT KARMA!!!
I hope this icky time passes quickly so you can get on to the much better parts of your life that are coming up. big hugs.
Karma really *is* a bitch; a vindictive one at that….
Summer
Chinese proverb “if you sit by the river long enough, the body of your enemy will float by”… I think that has something to do with patience….but I didn’t have time to think about it much…
Nothing to add to the wise, lovely comments others have left you, other than
, and I know you shall emerge from this a stronger supahstaaah, L.
Ha. It is crowded there, I’m sure. It’s where I keep some of my demons. ;-
dude…
I just read like 2 months of private entries…
I’m sorry that you’re apparently getting the shitty end of the stick, it looks like things are going better now
maybe? sorta?
I hope everything goes great.
a friend of a friend (Ande Parks, who used to do a fucking awesome book called UNCLE SLAM but now inks Green Arrow for DC) just bought a little figure that Frazetta drew. I always think of that when I see your banner. thought I’d share
You said it yourself… You took the high road.
Hold on. You will just continue to ascend from here…
I reckon we’ll know how it went later. Maybe much later and maybe in a couple of months. But I don’t think it didn’t go well if you made progress inside.
I just hope it’s soon over my dear. You don’t deserve to have to keep going through repeated bouts of hell.
I kinda wish I could kick that fucks ass.